Lifelong learning from Looking, Watching and Contemplating
Our children may become the victims and creators of the misery of lust, hatred, and ignorance. Because of the blind love of parents, ignorant parents support to satisfy the needs of their children quickly and unconditionally. After many time of quick satisfaction, the children become obsessed with happy feelings, they want to have more happy feelings without putting any efforts. Gradually, they become greedy children. Because of greed and unsatisfying greed, they may constantly fall into stress. They may become the victims of stress chemicals, the victims of living condition. To remove greed and hatred, children need to study more, train more and practice more to gain the knowledge and essential skills. Knowledge can help children stay away from the traps of delusion and ignorance. With knowledge, skills, and patience, children can control the needs, can control the anger and control the behaviors to move forwards noble goals. Children can create joy and happiness for themselves by their ability like characters, skills, and patience. Unfortunately, to gain knowledge, patience and essential skills gained from hard labors like studying, training and practicing are quite hard and painful at first. Some parents love their children so blindly that they cannot stand seeing their children suffering pain in first working so that they interfere or jump in to help their children. Parents may accidentally take all chances for their children to gain and develop essential skills, knowledge, patience and strong characters. Children with greed, hatred, and ignorance; and without knowledge, patience, and essential skills may be suffering endless pain and stress in their later life. To some extent, the bad characters and the disadvantages of parents may be inherited by their children.