FOUR FACTORS THAT DETERMINE ALL HUMAN HEALTH AND PROBLEMS.
1. Unconditional love:
2. Connection: people, animal, diversified nature, understanding with parents.
3. Unstressed environment: happy, warm, cheering; then make them have the feeling of safety, certainty to work, try, play, do and fail... they have more skill and abilities to deal with the needed problems, challenges in life
4. Ability to deal with fact of life - the fact that some people may think is the big threat, problems, or danger.
- The combination of the varieties of these for factors create the varieties in health problems: ADHD, rainbow autism, with many other symptoms in gastric, intestine, heart and ...describe in side effects of epinephrine, norepinephrine, and cortisone in medical books.
- The combination of these four factors describes the big difference in boy and girls in autism, ADHD: the instinct of female make the infant, the cute make girl do not get problems.
Simple breathing meditation helps children better than medication in ADHD and Autism. Father said: “the day autistic child happy he will less over-react than the stressful day.”
If gen, food, chemical or ... there will have the same percentage of boy and girls, city, and the countryside.
With normal development, 2-3 months old children have the responses, interested, pay attention to the talking and smile back, shaking hands and body when parents talk directly to them. Do this regularly, you if you see the signs of not paying attention or indifference: the early signs of stress, over time children, may get more severe problems in the brain and mental problems. Observe the pattern of sleeping, eating, crying, and emotion to realize early signs since 1-2-3 months old to have an early simple intervention.
You should pay attention to provide more love, peaceful environment, sing, dance, play music with joy, create the natural energy of the young for kid, not the stupid quiet, silence and too much tidy of the nursery home, you are peace of mind to kiss, hug, embrace, chances of creating abilities, and more connection to the diversity of nature, animal, and real fruit.
The variation of these for factors and the combination of them are the answer for all problems that scientists do not pay attention:
- In ADHD, Autism: boy much more than girls because Girls from the instinct are more cute, more communicable than boys.
- ADHD, Autism in the city is significantly higher than in the countryside, even the city has a better standard of living, eating,.. but they lack connection, freely play, learn from nature and other kids. Children have more abilities to adapt to stress than in the city. But they got another stress, problems.
- Dogs, cats can create contact with kids and help autistic kids
- Scientists see that Oxytocin can help an autistic child, they are doing more research to carry it on the autistic child in the future.
- Children in the orphanage may have enough food, protection, and less stress but they lack love, intimate connection with parents so most of them have problems with social skills.
- Because of stress, lacking skill, if wrong and poor intervention, kids may develop many other diseases: depression, psychotic problems, ... that we do not know why.
- How about, why strong, successful millionaires commit suicide. Put on them the pressure of work, the burden of losing $ 10 million $ contract, then the hate, angry of the spouse, the indifference of relatives, stress from the boring stressful work, they may have discontented mind, they bear the stress alone. They chose drugs, addiction, alcohol, suicide as the way of escaping.
- The variation of these parts plus with the right intervention make the varieties in the outcomes or the rainbow of Autism.
- They are in stress, they over-react with small minor stimulator as the most adults, students, parents, leaders, and Ceo react in when they are in pressure, stress: breaking, kicking, shouting, rebelling, or killing. If late to help them, they got more other problems in health, mental: depression or...
Trust me, Kids can learn all difficult things, master difficult skills: walking, talking English, talking Chinese, Japanese, riding, and countless skill that even a monkey can do that we can call Genius monkey.
How much need children love can be seen in these video on Youtube: reactions of the baby kid when parents come home.
They love parents crazily but the parent may hurt them indirectly or directly, accidentally or intentionally. How and why belong to the character of the mind: the elusive mind, ignorant mind.
How and why these four factors make this?
The world is spending half of it money: $ thousand billion on buying the weapon for finding safety, certainty or peace. Then they spend $ thousand billion on medicine, luxury products, cars, villas for find the feeling of significance, recognition, importance, and they spend other $ trillions on medication, the drug with the hope of sleeping well, relaxing, relieving, and enjoying the artificial comfort and happiness???
A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a CEO
A stress moment can kill a politician
They are strong but the severe stress moment can have affected all their life. It embeds in their brain, cell, the organ that we do not consciously know but the subconscious mind know that moment: smell, sound, noise, invisible signal then create the conditioned responses to it.
Soldiers in ended 1950 are still under stress with any mild unwanted triggers.
Language, religions, accent, belief, behaviors, rituals, religions and funeral religions are the conditioned responses: you, your friend and partners have big differences in these: Will you dare to try to change with other people to enjoy their belief, rituals, and religions. Even the name of you and your dogs are results of Conditioned responses with languages. You like all of these because you have been conditioned, not because you like and chose these. The process of conditioning is so well and silently that you may illusively think you have the Ego,... You may die or sacrifice for the adopted assumption, belief, and religions. People are so ignorant that people in one family, community, region, district, class, city, countries are fighting for the changing opinions.
Value of character: the kind of conditioned responses
Discontented men react to good unwanted things discontentedly. "Discontented men may be shouting when seeing thorn in the bushes of roses."
Contented men conditioned responses to response contentedly to any unwanted things, problems, and challenges. "Contented men happy, joyful and hope when seeing a rose in the bushes of thorns."
Value of character, the adjective of character: Discontented men react to good unwanted things discontentedly. Contented men conditioned responses to response contentedly to any unwanted things, problems, and challenges. He is ADJECTIVE character means he conditioned ADJECTIVE responses or his responses to things adjectively.
Worst of all, he is intelligent but corrupt, means he finish well the corrupt works intelligent that no one until hundred years later.
Seeing a girl with college education screaming and running away when seeing a cockroach I understand the useless of knowing or formal education. Seeing a small brave girl ready to fight with a thief, a dog to protect her friends and understand the value of characters.
They live in stress, eat in fear, sleep in anxiety, playing in the boring safe side, wear luxury clothes in discontentment, study with pressure, and sexing with contempt. They never find real joy, happiness. Stress chemical: Adrenalin, noradrenalin, and cortisone. And happy chemicals: Endorphin, Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin; these chemical secreted in the body according to the state of mind. If an individual changes the state of mind, they may change the chemical in the body. Chronic Stress people may get the serious side effect of Stress chemicals. List the effects, and side effects on the medical books we know the results of stress on the body.
- Effects of Adrenalin: Sweating, Nausea and vomiting, Pale skin, Feeling short of breath, Dizziness, Weakness or tremors, Headache, Feeling of nervousness or anxiousness,
- Effects of Norepinephrine: Pain, burning, Numbness, weakness, or cold, Slow or uneven heart rate, Trouble breathing, Vision, speech, or balance difficulties, Blue lips or fingernails, Spotted skin
- Less serious side effects Cortisol: Acne, dry skin, or thinning skin, Bruising or discoloration of the skin, Insomnia, Mood changes, Increased sweating, Headache, Dizziness, Nausea, stomach pain,
- Serious side effects cortisol: Vision problems, Swelling, Rapid weight gain, Shortness of breath, Severe depression or unusual thoughts or behaviors, Seizures, Bloody or tarry stools, Coughing up blood, Symptoms of pancreatitis: pain in your upper stomach that spreads to your back; nausea and vomiting; or fast heart rate.
Because of me, because of you I always enjoy these chemicals in eating, receiving, getting, giving, sleeping and enjoying.
"Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid" -Kelly Clarkson: because of you-
- Happy kids are free to play, do, try, fail and have unconditioned support. "They are safe to work"
- Stressed kids are so fearful that they have to play in safe, learn in the clean, walk-in trail, and never fail. They have to bury the instinct nature inside: "They have to work to safe"
"All on one
One in all
Children are family
Family is nation
The nation is the world"
Dopamine: get a goal, finish a task, and achieve a purpose, finish a job, win the lottery: gambling, betting. Get hits, like or good comment on Facebook, Get good grade. When you find a big bargain in a buying, your purple widen. Excessive dopamine can increase the heartbeat, ventricular arrhythmia, atrial fibrillation, ectopic heartbeats, Tachycardia, angina, palpitation, bradycardia, vasoconstriction, hypotension, hypertension, shaking or collapsing are listed on all pharmacology books.
When you are joyful or excited, you have Piloerection, Nausea, vomiting, Anxiety, Mydriasis – caused by dopamine.
- Endorphin is the reward of labor.
- Serotonin comes when you get close contact: skin to skin, kiss, hugs, embracing, intimating acts. Or the feeling of belonging and significance. Dogs can make the owner have these feelings. When doing good, kind, and helping others. An act of goodness: the doer, the receiver, and the watcher will have the feeling caused by this.
Dopamine and Serotonin is the chemical that all psychic medication used to increase in patients. All medications for depression aim at increasing these.
Lastly, the chemical is oxytocin: sex, love, skin contact, and giving birth are high in this.
Scientists find that oxytocin may help autistic mice. they will do more research in future to apply to the autistic child. They do not know that these happy chemicals are secreted when they treat well with each other with love, close contact, connection, supporting and trusting.
Using smartwatches to know the emotion, thinking of people is a good suggestion by observing physical figures: heartbeat, blood pressure during the days, events, years and important Missions.
When people can sense the changes in the body with these chemicals- it called Gut Feelings: tighten the muscle, throbbing in head muscle, sweating or chill. It is there even we consciously know it or not as the conditioned response to the environment
How about the fragile kid who is forming the immature brain in stress. Best of all is calm stress down by